Not referring to the Shaggy song but my wife likes to intentionally watch videos about how to deal with NPD. this time I listened a tad. The video states that those with NPD need constant attention to themselves. This made me think. I really don’t need anyone. I can survive without human contact for a while if necessary. I can even live without my phone. My wife on the other hand needs constant attention. She always feels the need to have to talk to somebody. And gets upset if they don’t talk or agree with her. Am I still the one that is narcissistic?